What good romantic comedy or romance film is not centered around a Broken Heart? Whether it is at the very beginning of the film or more towards the middle of the movie, someone’s heart has been devastated by betrayal, lies, or broken trust. If it is true devastation, there will be either a death or complete abandonment, which shatters the heart of the star who is left reeling. But soon this drama will shift, and a new interest will appear, or the one who broke the heart will humbly return as a completely newly reformed individual to win back the love lost. And everyone lives happily ever after….The End.
It’s funny how real life very seldom shares such a lovely finality. No, sometimes a broken heart 💔 hurts so bad, it’s like everything in you dries up like a desert, or how the Bible captured it in Proverbs 17:22 NKJV A merry heart does good, like medicine, But a broken spirit dries the bones.
I started grabbing Bible verses on the topic of brokenhearted a long while back, when dealing with the fact that my heart was and still is broken. I’d lost the heart of really by best friend years ago and have missed it ever since. It was just like the Bible to put it all into perspective, too—the hurt and pain it caused and the long-term effects. The Bible captured how it impacted famous biblical characters like David, Jeremiah, and even Solomon. I’d been sitting on this until today, when the Bible app used the key scripture that had been helping guide me to comfort: Psalm 34:18 NKJV: The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit.
I’m comforted that the Lord is near when my heart is broken, and my spirit is contrite (crushed). The word ‘contrite‘ really encapsulates the devastation a broken heart can cause. The word contrite in Hebrew means crushed into powder, utter destruction. WOW!!! Is that not how it feels? I’ve grabbed a few other verses on heartbreak below, but the pain and isolation of a broken heart remind me of the life of a leper. Matthew 8:2 NKJV And behold, a leper came and worshiped Him, saying, “Lord, if You are willing, You can make me clean.”
In Hebrew days, the leper was literally cast off. Heartbreak can initially feel like that, like the one who had your heart, and everyone else around you has turned their backs on you, cast you out, and left you to fend for yourself. The leper was sent to a designated area away from all others not infected with this terrible disease so that nobody else could be contaminated, and even worse, no one would ever touch him again, and he was physically isolated as well, never to be able even to hug, caress, or kiss his loved ones again. Doesn’t heartbreak make you feel isolated, like nobody else understands or can help you, can relieve that hurt…that pain…that embarrassment…that shame. Not only do you feel isolated and abandoned, but literally your spirit is wounded, and your body physically hurts (But a broken spirit dries the bones).
The devil’s method of (steal, kill, destroy Jn 10:10) begins with isolation. Isolation keeps you away from those who are sent to your life to pour love into you. You have friends that are always encouraging, always looking to make you smile, always wanting to “hang out,” sometimes it’s just getting downright irritating. However, God knows what we need, because He’s been dealing with this devil for a long time. By keeping that love from others away from you, the isolation keeps other voices from you and allows the enemy’s words to loom louder. You’re horrible, you don’t deserve love, it was all your fault, you will never be able to find love again—all kinds of lies, which add to the heartbreak and crushed spirit.
Last week in the news (which is filled with heartbreak), there was a young college student who jumped to her death on campus. After one of the biggest weekends on campus and heading into the holidays, she was so heartbroken that she decided to end it all. Having a teenage daughter, there is nothing sadder to see than a young person feeling so crushed in spirit, isolated, and broken that a decision like that is all she thought she had.
OK, let’s get to the good news. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart. Jesus is closer than you ever realize when your heart is broken, and He even said as much when making this declaration in the synagogue to the Jewish leadership: Luke 4:18 NKJV “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, Because He has anointed Me To preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives And recovery of sight to the blind, To set at liberty those who are oppressed; Jesus was sent to heal our brokenness, heal our broken hearts, which is why He remains near to those who have a broken heart.
This is also what the leper in Matthew’s Gospel found out: Jesus was not only sent, but He is more than willing to heal us. Matthew 8:3 NKJV Then Jesus put out His hand and touched him, saying, “I am willing; be cleansed.” Immediately, his leprosy was cleansed. The love that Jesus has for us will always be unmatched by anyone or anything. Jesus demonstrated His love for this isolated, brokenhearted, and diseased leper by first touching him, then cleansing and healing him. Jesus restored this leper’s dignity, then his body, then his position in the community, all with one touch, one phrase, one anointing. That same anointing is awaiting you. He has drawn near to you. Ask Him to heal your broken heart 💔 today.
Romans 5:8 NKJV But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.